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Hmmm.

"The fundamental insecurity of one's sense of self, its power and boundaries, is more or less the basis of our every interaction with others; every action and reaction is ultimately based on a need to assert ourselves to reassure ourselves that we exist and we are who we think we are or want to be...We find labels to identify "with" or "as," but we are never identical with these labels and we can never really identify ourselves... Ultimately, we are never perfectly identical with any set identity, so we go on searching throughout life for more beliefs, interests, tastes, labels -- determined that if our identity cannot have form it should at least have substance."
Kitty Raymond in The Fetishized Me (1996).